Friday, June 13, 2014

Buy Your Own Flowers


There’s something about fresh flowers in the house. I love the way a vase filled with fresh flowers can make any space look more inviting, fresh, and put together. I also love when my husband brings those flowers home, or sends them to me at the office. For some, flowers are a waste of money because they die, but I personally love them. When I get them as a gift, I feel loved, appreciated, and special knowing someone intentionally thought of me and wanted to make my day. When my bouquet of peonies I had sitting on my coffee table started to wilt and drop its leaves last week, I started dropping hints to my husband about how much I’d LOVE new flowers for the house, reminding him how great it would be to have some new fresh babies sprucing up the living room.

 But, then I thought to myself, why don’t I just buy my own flowers? Why do I need them to come from someone to be special? I am perfectly capable of buying my own peonies from Trader Joes and enjoying them every time I see them on my coffee table. So that’s what I did. I headed to Trader Joes at lunch yesterday and bought myself a beautiful bouquet of flowers and I’ll tell you what, They make me just as happy as if Ronnie bought them for me.

We don’t have to wait for someone else to come into our life and make us happy. Just because I buy my own flowers sometimes doesn’t mean I won’t enjoy it when my husband does buy me flowers next time. Buying my own flowers doesn’t mean I don’t want him to do that now and again, but it does mean that I am capable of making myself happy as well.

Friends-we are in charge of our own happiness. Having people in our lives can increase our happiness, but they should not be the only source of our happiness. Go do something nice for yourself today, you deserve it.

S p o n s o r   S p o t l i g h t


I've had the pleasure of meeting the gorgeous and wise Kaitlin from Sew My Soul through blogging and I am so excited to introduce her to you. Her blog is full of wise advice about marriage, delicious looking recipes, and awesome sewing projects. Her love story is unique and precious and completely their own.  Kaitlin is such a sweet soul, and her insight in what the role of wife should look like absolutely hit home with me because I am often too quick at laser-pointing out my husbands flaws instead of encouraging him.  As someone who also had a relativity short engagement, I thought her post about how to plan a wedding in 100 days or less was SPOT on! Go check out her blog, I am sure you will be encouraged!


16 comments:

  1. I love getting flower. I just got some last week from a friend.

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  2. Love that setup on your table! Gorgeous!!

    www.madeintheshadeblog.com

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  3. I love fresh flowers. I always buy new flowers on Friday. To me they just make a home feel more complete! Happy weekend!

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  4. I buy myself flowers every other week when grocery shopping! It's just a bonus when the occasional bouquet from Husband arrives! And I'm so excited about the posts you loved <3 meeting you through blogging has been so fun!

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  5. I love buying myself flowers. It's like a flame-less candle. We deserve to make ourselves happy once in a while!

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  6. Great message that applies to so much more than flowers. Thanks for sharing!
    Also, you took a beautiful photo at the beginning!

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  7. You are so right. "Buy your own flowers." That definitely belongs on a t-shirt.

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  8. I have never in my life bought flowers for myself... but now I just might need to! ;) Have you read 'bread and wine' already?! I've heard amazing things about it!

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  9. I make a trip to Trader Joes about weekly to buy flowers for myself! It's an addiction! But since its a pretty one that makes me happy it's probably ok right? Glad you agree with buying your own flowers :)

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  10. I love this. I love having flowers at my desk or in my bedroom. They definitely brighten up the day. I may or may not be heading to Trader Joe's now just to buy flowers. :)

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  11. Joe is not a flower buyer so I've had to buy my own a lot as well ;)

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  12. So completely in love with this message! I love having fresh flowers around and there is no reason why I can't treat myself to them every so often. We create our own happiness! (:

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  13. Oh, Brittany, you are so right! We are responsible for our own happiness and we shouldn't even lay that on anyone else, but we often do (or at least I do). I found you through sweet Rachel Walker's site and I'm looking forward to the "Day in the LIfe" link up next Thursday. Blessings abundant!

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  14. nice!
    do you follow each other?
    let me know!
    http://defishencia.blogspot.ru/

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  15. I have intended to buy myself flowers for awhile now, I just never remember to. I'm going to need to make a point to do it!

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  16. I have done this so many times! I love having fresh flowers around the house. Sometimes I just gotta suck it up and buy them myself!

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